All my life i’ve seen marriages break as easily as a twig, but yet to this day i beleive in the fairytale ending. My favorite disney movie ever since i was a little kid was Cinderella  because although Cinderella experienced a lot of hardship she got through it and got her happily ever after. Why is this considered such an ideal, yet unatainable future? Well i’m against it being a fantasy it can be real. I know what your saying, “oh wow has this person never felt pain or been in a real relationship or even she’s just a kid she doesn’t understand” well damn it i think it’s the adults that do not understand. When you lose hope in the dream of living your life happily ever after it then loses hope on you and it won’t allow you to attain it. I beleive i will get married and  have a happily ever after with the love of my life who i have spent the last three years with. And i know as long as me and him let our love guide us i’m sure we will be the happiest people on earth. Another thing people don’t get i think when choosing a partner is if you would love them through thick and thin, through sickness and poorness, till death due it parts you. Maybe people don’t listen to their wedding vows and take them for granted, but to me thats almost like ignoring the sanction of Marriage itself and ignoring it’s values. If people gave more value to marriage i’m sure people would be more selective and more sure of who they want to marry. Who says you have to settle for what you have. I think that the way to have the fairy tale ending of being married and living happily ever after is to make sure what you have is what you want. If your settling for someone then that means that’s not what you want is it? it is just taking what you can get which is a whole other story. Yes it’s hard and sometimes you can’t find that someone untill a verry old age or maybe you have at a young age (as in my case) but you just have to have faith someone is out there for you. Someone that will make you smile, that will hold your hand through thick and thin, through poorness and sickness, through everything that life can throw at you. It will happen and when it does thats when you know you can be married and live happily ever after. Also you have to understand that it is not fair to be with someone you love if they don’t love you back. Even though it hurts not being able to be with a person like that it’s for your own good. Have faith that that person isn’t the person your looking for it is not your true love because your true will love you back not matter what. Another thing to keep in mind is that beuty is in the eye of the beholder. Not everyone has the same standard of beuty so make sure you stay at your own beutiful way so that the person that is for you can see that beuty that only him or her can appreciate. What inspired me to write this you ask? Well the hopeful (not hopeless) romantic in my heart decided to come out because i’ve realized i have found my true love and one day he will marry me and i will have that happily ever after i sought after since i was 4 and pictured what my wedding dress would look like. For now we are too young to be married but when we acheive our goals we will start the rest of our lives together in love with much happiness, ups and downs, and everything that life throws at us.:)